Are You Thinking?

Are You Thinking?

Many times, Person A says or does something strange or dangerous and Person B yells out “wasn’t that person thinking?!?!” According to Person B, Person A clearly didn’t think. And I usually respond back to Person B with – “if your IQ is above average (100),...
Defrag Your iHOS for New Year Success

Defrag Your iHOS for New Year Success

The most cobbled together (and restrictive) part of your internal Human Operating System (iHOS) is your Identity. Since birth and over the years of being you, you have accumulated many Personal Identity Characteristics from various sources. You have inadvertently...
Nature of Human Nature

Nature of Human Nature

Wherever you go, there it is. Lurking behind every action. Ready anytime to jump out and get in the way of a good idea. We blame it for all the bad and acknowledge it for all the good. We proclaim – “it’s just human nature!” Human nature seems to be the catchall...
I–WE–US Pronoun Progression

I–WE–US Pronoun Progression

Here is some fatherly advice for all those who are getting married, have gotten married, and/or are having children or planning to have children. Listen carefully, this is very important to the success of the family you create. We all started life as an “I.” Almost...
Driving Challenge!

Driving Challenge!

I say – “There is no hope for peace in the world, until everyone simply obeys their local traffic laws.” Which traffic laws – speeding, running red lights, stopping at Stop signs, texting while driving, yielding the right of way, and my biggest pet peeve, signaling a...

Don’t Argue with Me! Part 2

“I’m always right!” When two people disagree in an argument, they immediately create a relational gap. The greater the disagreement the greater the relational gap becomes. Everyone sees their own truth – truth that fits their view of life, their point of view, their...